By Daphne Bowen


There are numerous people from all walks of life that find it extremely difficult to cope with the day to day demands of modern life. Many feel pressurised by the need to juggle all their family and work responsibilities. In many cases such people simply become dysfunctional. In extreme cases they may even fall prey to psychological disorders or start to exhibit behavioural quirks. In such cases it is highly advisable to consult a therapist in downtown Toronto.

Therapists deal with a very large variety of problems. Each case is unique. Some people simply feel as if their lives are worthless. They feel unfulfilled and they feel helpless. In many cases people simply need an objective professional person to use as a sounding board. By talking about their feelings they are forced to examine themselves and in this way they often find solutions.

Many other patients see a therapist because they are trying to deal with issues that are causing them pain, trauma and a reduced quality of life. They may struggle to cope with the death of a loved one, or they may be unable to adapt to changed circumstances such as a divorce, the loss of a job, reduced financial circumstances and even illness or a disability.

Counselling is often done in groups. People suffering from similar problems and conditions van often learn from each other and encourage each other. Being part of a group also helps patients to accept the fact that they are not alone in their suffering. Group therapy has proven to be extremely beneficial and it is more economical than individual therapy.

Many professionals in this field specialize in a very narrowly defined area such as trauma counselling, divorce mediation or relationships. It is therefore important to choose a counsellor that has experience in dealing with patients with the particular relevant need. Many general practitioners will gladly supply a reference. It may be worth it to schedule an initial session with the chosen professional to determine whether a relationship of trust with that professional is likely to develop.

There are no magic wands and miracle cures in therapy. It is very important to accept the fact that the process will take time and that patience is of the essence. Some cases require years of dedication from both the counsellor and the patient. Patients must also not expect their counsellors to accept responsibility for solving their problems. This is simply not possible.

It is a great pity that many people never get professional help because they think that it is a sign of weakness. Thankfully, attitudes have changed but there are still people that can truly benefit from counselling but that never get it. Seeking help is not a shameful act. It takes guts to acknowledge that there is a problem and to go for counselling in order to deal with the issue.

In many ways, psychological problems can be even more debilitating that a physical illness. The symptoms are more subtle and the sufferer often does not even realize that he has a problem and that the problem can be overcome with professional help. Unfortunately, such people often also have a negative effect on the lives of those close to him.




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